Here comes another Valentine’s Day! Does your heart say ‘Yay or “Nay?’
Do you look forward to February 14th, or do you dread the ceremony of it?
I invite you to look into the shadows of your ‘love story archives’ and notice if this act to proclaim love brings you pleasure, disdain or even pain?
Are you walking around with broken-hearted stories from the past that you protect daily?
It’s not possible to have true intimacy with another person unless you love yourself on the inside first.
If you fake it and hope to finally feel the return of love from another, you will be sadly disappointed in whatever the other person does to show you love.
They could be bending over backward, but the love they profess will land on deaf ears.
One must nourish the wounded heart and renovate its’
limiting beliefs about self. This is an act of self-love.
It is our responsibility to heal … no one else’s love can pierce the protective walls that are designed to keep you safe.
However, if the prescription was to distract from healing with the blush of new love, the mask will eventually fall away and reveal the raw material of the wounded heart. This is the true medicine for the self to heal, recover, and ultimately Love again.
Did you know that we attract the exact partners to reveal whatever it is that we need to expose for our sweethearts to heal?
If your parents were parenting from their own deficit of love … then you might have experienced quite the opposite of true balanced love.
Conditions will apply and you will bump into different versions of quid pro quo love so that you can identify it and look it in the eyes, and heal.
We all are doing the best we can with the resources we had at the time. There is an opportunity to heal the ancestral quid pro quo – conditional fear-based love that was the theme of the times.
Our love relationships are insightful especially when we turn to the outer world for the love that was missing in childhood.
The intelligent Universe will be a mirror.
If you can read the energy of you on the inside first, and see where you are not intimate with yourself, you will be less inclined to shoot the messenger that showers you with roses and expensive chocolates.
BTW, You may have been creative and chosen a partner that is unavailable. This is also one of the ways we play the long game with our soul-growth opportunities. Look within and be in truth with your own information.
Intimacy can be broken down into 5 syllables;
IN – TO – ME – I – SEE
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A broken heart is every bit as precious as a heart full of love.
