This week’s video is about ‘Truth Tracking’ your own guidance systems. Your G.P.S. is so intelligent that it will handpick your friends and life partners in order for you to mature and grow emotionally.
Here’s just one example; if you are a chronic over-giver, the Universe will bring you people that take more than they give. If you aren’t listening … you might give more and more to keep the loyalty of that relationship intact.
Check your personal ‘Systems Preferences’ and look under the ‘loyalty’ setting. Were you taught to be loyal no matter what? Even when someone was abusing you or taking advantage?
This ‘loyalty theme’ might be constantly bringing in friends and relationships that abandon and betray you … but you stay loyal no matter what. Ouch!
This is a real deep problem if you allow it to continue. It will suck your power and you will be left in a puddle of resentment and blame for what ‘they’ did to you. Eventually, you will get exhausted and tired of the victim dance.(Sometimes this process of waking up will take years …)
I prefer to have you go into your inner landscape and see where you are doing a version of that to YOU first. It might be as simple as out of balance ‘loyalty settings’ from a well meaning’d parent or authority figure from your childhood.
I am here to say, it’s not too late to get a ‘do-over.’ Your inner child parts are so forgiving. Their job is to call your attention to what didn’t get agreement by you.
Please schedule here if you would like to have a private session and change those old ‘system preferences.’
Suffering and staying stuck is a choice. What have you got to lose? Maybe an old ‘theme?’
